ACTON, Elizabeth (‘Lily’), 1856-1933

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Elizabeth Acton-bef 1902ELIZABETH (‘Lily’) ACTON was born February 24, 1956 at Bewerley, in Pateley-Bridge, in Yorkshire, England to Richard ACTON  and his wife Elizabeth SHENTON.

Lily’s father was the gardener at Bewerley Hall, which was a large manor house with extensive gardens (check the website http://www.lostheritage.org.uk for photos). The manicured lawns and shrubs, and large kitchen (i.e. vegetable) gardens were completely unlike the frontier Canadian experience the family was about to embark upon.

Photo above courtesy of D. Acton, Saskatchewan

About 1857 when Lily was 2 years old, her parents, siblings and some extended family immigrated to Rockingham, in northern Ontario, Canada. Here they optimistically broke land, constantly picked the rocks for which the area was aptly named and eked out a living farming.

In 1864 her mother died in childbirth, leaving 8 year old Lily in the care of her older siblings. A housekeeper, Mary COULAS, was hired to help with the young family. In 1866 Lily’s father married Mary. With this new step-mother numerous step-brothers and step-sisters were born into the family.

ACTON1974-001In 1871, the family – now 11 in number (Lily, her father, step-mother and nine siblings/step-siblings) lived in the small log cabin on the Rockingham farm.

Photo right from the author’s collection. Taken about 1971 on the Rockingham farmstead. The original log house is clearly visible

 

In the 1881 census, Elizabeth (always ‘Elizabeth’ and not ‘Lily’ for official events such as census) , 25 years old, had moved to Montreal and worked as a servant for the family of Edward and Mary Stewart. Montreal was an obvious place for Elizabeth to go for work, as she had at last one sister who had married and lived there.

After the 1881 census Lily disappeared from the census records until we can pick up her trail again. We know she traveled to Saskatchewan to visit her brother Samuel ACTON who had homesteaded and married Janet WALKER there in the 1890s. ACTON1902-002While visiting she met and married local farmer John Harold (‘Harry’) BIRCH, who was born in England December 14, 1859 (Source: John’s death registration).

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Elizabeth (Lily), 46,  and John (Harry), 43, were married on her brother Samuel’s farm in 1902. In this wedding photo they are seated to the left of centre in the second row. A curious feature of this photo is that it is obviously taken outdoors, during what appears to be winter time (lack of vegetation, fur hats being worn by the men). Why would the formal wedding photo be taken outdoors in winter? Perhaps it was the only place for the photographer to assemble such a large group.

Lily and Harry farmed just south to the Qu’Appelle Valley, between Ellisboro and Wolseley. In this pre-television age, local communities created their own entertainment. One such event was an annual picnic held by the Qu’Appelle River. Third and fourth from the right are Lily (white hat) and Harry (on Lily’s left). This photo was likely taken in 1912.ACTON1900-000

After some years of farming, Lily and Harry rented their farmland. Acton-Birch Victoria-bef 1927In 1921 (according to both their death registrations) they moved to Victoria, British Columbia where they bought a house on Chaucer Street.

Photo left, L to R: Lily, Janet (WALKER) ACTON, Janet’s husband and Lily’s brother Samuel ACTON, and Harry. Date of photo between 1921 and 1927.

Photo below: Birch home on Chaucer Street, from the collection of K.H.of Saskatchewan

Harry Birch home 2-from Kim

Here they entertained Saskatchewan relatives. Photo below taken after Samuel ACTON’s death in 1927 and before 1933. L to R: Lily, Janet (WALKER) ACTON, unknown woman, Jenny ACTON, unknown woman and Harry.Acton-Birch Victoria-aft 1927

 

 

 

 

 

Harry & Lil Birch-Buchart gardens - from Kim

Photo above taken at Butchart Gardens, Victoria between 1921 and 1927. Photo from the collection of K.H.of Saskatchewan

Lily and Harry died in Victoria, British Columbia, Lily on 22 September 1933 and Harry 21 April 1946. They are both buried in the Ellisboro Cemetery in the Qu’Appelle Valley, Saskatchewan.

Acton-Birch cemetery monument

Moffat, John (‘Jack’) Brown (1942-2014) Condolences

The following are a few of the condolences have been received since Jack’s death. Only the initials of senders have been used, and slight editing has been done to protect personal information of living persons.

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Where do I begin with Memories of Jack?

  • Gentleness & caring – in action and in words
  • Pride in his Scottish ancestry
  • The morning papers – at least two every day
  • The precise and measured in the way he took care of things
  • Rides in the Jag
  • A discerning taste when selecting pubs and pub grub
  • A proud and caring father and grandfather
  • An astute observer of people
  • A vast knowledge of Scottish genealogy and an openness to share if asked
  • The telescope and noting the arrival and departures of cruise ships
  • A soothing and almost lyrical voice
  • Willingness to help you whenever he could
  • A great sense of humour and a dry wit
  • A wonderful story teller
  • And above all a true friend

From D. N., Edmonton, Alberta

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Still finding it difficult to take in the fact I will not get to see Jack again, a very big influence in my life particularly in last 6-7 years, some great times over a drink or two listening to many stories, will be greatly missed, condolences to you Pat and rest of family. A.M., Calgary, Alberta

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Jack was a gentle man as well as being a gentleman. How fortunate we are to have known him for however short a time. H. & J. B., Calgary, Alberta, Canada

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After reading Jack’s obituary, as well as condolences, memories flooded back. And seeing his picture again was wonderful as well. Jack really did have a way of always making you feel welcome and making sure you had everything you needed. He was very knowledgeable about many things and amazingly helpful as a handyman as I realized in Ft. McMurray while trying to get a house ready to sell without the man of the house around! Jack (and Pat both) stepped in with enthusiasm and got the place whipped in to shape in no time. He was a true gentleman with a quick wit and great sense of humour. We are still having a hard time getting our heads around his passing. Our deepest sympathy to the entire family, this loss will be deeply felt. L. & D. N., Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

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Words cannot explain just how sorry we are to hear of Jack’s passing. How is it possible? It seems that just a few weeks ago we were sharing a wee scotch as he straightened me out on Scottish history once again. I’ll remember his often dry wit and his very sharp mind. In a room full of people he was the one I would drift towards to enjoy his humour and stories and polite verbal jabs at me. A man’s man. Our condolences to Pat and the entire family.  From M. & K. S., Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

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So sad to hear about Jack. It has been so sudden for you all to take in. Kinder on Jack but so much harder for the family. You must be proud to have had such a kind gentleman as a husband. I will always remember him. Please pass on our thoughts to all the family. I know it is a very hard time for you all. You and Jack packed so much into your lives. All your travels, family visits. A lovely box of memories for everyone, including myself. LA. S., Elderslie, Renfrewshire, Scotland

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From the first time we met Jack, we were impressed by his warmth, kindness and humour, and we’ve always enjoyed our times with him. With virtual hugs, F. B. & M. Z., Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

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I am so sorry to hear about Jack. So shockingly quickly. It was a great privilege to know him and I am so glad that R. and I had the opportunity to meet him in the past couple of years. He had a wonderful sense of humour and that wry smile will live on in my memory of him as well as his soft and gentle voice and manner. He was a real gem and will indeed be missed by many. Thinking of you at this sad time and sending you our love, L. & R. H., London, England

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I am so sorry to hear the news of Jack. The times I met him I enjoyed his company. My father talked often of the times he spent with you and Jack on the island and how well you both had treated him. He mentioned fond memories of having touring the island and having a drink in the evening with you. When things settle a bit, let me know when the wake will be held and I will try to make it. G. & J. H., Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

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All we can do is offer our very heartfelt sympathy to you and all the family. We were looking forward to the day when you both came to Australia for a visit and we could relive our adventures on the river cruise. I’m pleased you at least had your Asian holiday. The wake/celebration of Jack’s life will certainly be an interesting one – just thinking of his time in Australia when he was young, he saw more of the country than most Aussies do. The only problem he would hate to miss being there with everyone to enjoy it. N. & K. M, Queensland, Australia

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I am so, so sorry to hear this terrible news. I was just getting to know Jack. You had such a great partner in him. G. W., Shawnigan Lake, British Columbia, Canada

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Please accept my sincere sympathy on Jacks passing. I passed this news along to my mother, who has asked me to extend her condolences to you, as she does not have e-mail any more. I know you have had a very tough year with the loss of your mother and now Jack. We are thinking of you, and hope that the memories of your years together will offer some comfort during this difficult time. H.D. & A.M., Calgary, Alberta, Canada

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We were so saddened to learn that Jack passed away. We are thinking of you. Jack was such a special man, we were fortunate to know him and will always carry him in our hearts. He made everyone feel that they were special, that there was nothing else in the world that was more important than that moment in time, that connection, that intimacy, that shared laugh or story. It was a true gift. You are very much in our thoughts. J.O & G. E., Canmore, Alberta, Canada

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We are very saddened to learn of Jack’s passing. He was a very fine and caring person who became known and respected as a part of our larger family. You have our deepest sympathy. R. & M. A., Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

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Oh that is devastating news about our dear Jack. Very hard to comprehend. And to develop so quickly! Yes it is wonderful that you did that trip. And for H. and I it was more than wonderful that we got to spend time with you both, see where you lived, be driven around in the Jaguar and hear some of Jack’s great yarns. Treasured times, now even more treasured. The last time you wrote you said he had the map of Australia in one hand and a calendar in the other. That was GOOD news.  Words inadequate at a time like this but you can be assured that we are thinking of you and sending positive energy across the Pacific. Know that there two people here in Australia who loved him very much and feel very privileged to have met him and spent time with him. He had a very special place in our hearts, as you do. We wish there was more that we could do but….

For now, much love, R. B. & H. P., Victoria, Australia

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I’m so sorry to hear your news about Jack. Our condolences to you and your family. He will be greatly missed. He was such a nice fellow. Thinking of you. K. R., Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

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MOFFAT, John (‘Jack’) Brown (1942-2014) Biography

In the past few months the content of this blog has altered slightly; first with the obituary, life story and condolences received for my mother Jean ACTON and now with the same for my husband John MOFFAT. However, their inclusion in the blog is apt – the title of the blog “Remembering our ancestors whose stories have been lost or forgotten” still applies. These individuals, although deceased within the last year, ARE the ancestors of the young members of their families. Although their physical flame has been extinguished, it is important that their story live on and not be forgotten.

Below is the obituary of John MOFFAT, his life story and photographs will be added, condolences received have been posted July 17, 2014. If you would like to send a message to the family, or have memories or stories of Jack you’d like to share, please LEAVE A COMMENT or click here to use the email address theirownstories@gmail.com. With the exception of the family names noted in the below in standard obituary format, no names of living people will be used to protect their privacy.

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 John (‘Jack’) Brown MOFFAT, 31 March 31, 1942 – 28 June 2014

Jack died peacefully, after a brief illness, 28 June 2014 in Victoria, British Columbia. Born in Sanquhar, Dumfriesshire, Scotland on 31 March 1942 to Thomas Brown Moffat, coal miner, and his wife Catherine Wilson Brown, Jack is survived in Canada by his wife Patricia Acton, daughter Fiona (Paulo) Moffat, son Andrew, granddaughter Brianna Novak, sister Dorothy (Derek) Rowan, niece Lesley (Henk) Rowan and stepfamily Daniel, Angie, Thomas and Samuel Schick. In Scotland Jack is survived by his brother William (Gwen) and numerous nephews, nieces, cousins and extended family; he was predeceased by his sisters and brothers-in-law Janet (William) Brown and Mary (David) Wylie; also brothers Andrew and Thomas.

Trained as a millwright, Jack initially followed his ancestors’ calling and worked in the Scottish coal mines (1957-1962, 1970-1977), however his sense of adventure took him round the globe, first as a Marine Engineer with Shell Tankers Ltd. (1962-1964, 1968-1969), and then as an emigrant to Australia as a ‘10 pound pom’. While in Australia (1966-1968) he explored and circumnavigated the country in an old Holden car, and worked for several major mining companies. Back in Scotland he worked (1969-1970) as a steel erector of factories and then in an explosives factory (1977-1980). He immigrated to Ft. McMurray, Alberta, Canada and worked for Syncrude Canada (1980-1999) after which he was employed by the Municipality of Wood Buffalo until his retirement and move to Victoria in 2005.

In retirement Jack continued to travel the globe, and made several trips ‘home’ to Scotland to visit family and research his ancestors. Jack had a lifelong interest in genealogy and Scottish history; as well as his own ancestors he conducted research for many friends and was always ready to show others how to research their roots. In lieu of flowers a donation to the Victoria Genealogical Society (www.VictoriaGS.org) may be made so that others can continue to learn how to research their family history.

No funeral service will be held, a wake will be announced at a future date.

Tangled Web of Family Relationships

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Family history often a confused mixture of relationships; the story of the WATSON (including MUIR) – ACTON  families is no exception. The photo below was taken about 1938-39 in Saskatchewan at one of the many family picnic get-to-gethers of the WATSON-ACTON families. The location of the photo is likely beside the Qu’Appelle River, near Ellisboro, probably just beside the old bridge.

After Thomas WATSON and his wife Jane MUIR immigrated to Saskatchewan in 1910, their sons (James (#15 in the photo), William (#4), Alexander (deceased at the time of the photo), and daughter Helen (Nell) (#40) married members of the Acton family. The resulting combined and extended families led to a tangled web of relations and cousins. While Thomas (d. 1932) and Jane Watson (d. 1933) are not in this photo, many of their descendants are.

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Names of people in picnic of Watson – Acton families and their relationship to Thomas and Jane (Muir) Watson. Names of persons still living have been left blank(__).

1. Joseph (‘Joe’) Francis ACTON (1886-1972): husband of Nell (#40); father of Dick (#12) and Tom (#8); son-in-law of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR.

2. [Living son] WATSON: step-son of Bill (#4); brother of Janet (#23); grandson of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

3. Samuel (‘Sam’) Acton WATSON (1920-2002): son of Jim (#15) and Nancy (#38); brother of Doris (#29), Bill (#13), Muriel (#37), and __ (#28); grandson of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR.

4. William (‘Bill’) Muir WATSON (1892-1973): step-father of Bob (#2); brother of Nell (#40), Jim (#15) and John (#35); son of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR.

5. Jeff PARKER: husband of Edith (#20)

6. Robert WALKER (Sr.): nephew of Janet (#16); married to Lilly BAKER (not in photo), sister of Bill Sharpe’s wife Priscilla BAKER.

7. [Living son] ACTON: son of Dick (#21) and Annie (#27); brother of __ (#39), __ (#36), __ (#19), __ (#18), __ (#26) and __ (#22).

8. Thomas (‘Tom’) Watson ACTON (1917-1991): son of Joe (#1) and Nell (#40); brother of Dick (#12); grandson of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR.

9. William (‘Bill’) SHARPE: Husband of Priscilla BAKER (#25);

10. Robert WALKER (Jr.): son of Robert WALKER (Sr.) (#6)

11. Anne (Gompf) McKINNON: wife of Alex (#14); mother of Vi (#30)

12. Richard (‘Dick’) William ACTON (1916-1990): son of Joe (#1) and Nell (#40); brother of Tom (#8); grandson of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

13. Richard William (‘Bill’) WATSON (1916-2000): son of Jim (#15) and Nancy (#38); brother of Doris (#29), Muriel (#37), Sam (#3) and __ (28); grandson of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

14. Alexander ‘Alex’ McKINNON: husband of Anne (#11); father of Vi (#30); brother of Annie (#27)

15. James (‘Jim’) Muir WATSON (1888-1965): husband of Nancy (#38); father of Doris (#29), Bill (#13), Muriel (#37), Sam (#3) and __ (28); brother of Bill (#4), Nell (#40) and John (#35); son of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

16. Janet (Walker) ACTON (1859-1948): (widow of Samuel ACTON; Samuel died in 1927 therefore not shown in photo); mother of Nancy (#38), Dick (#21), Bob (#32) and Jenny (#17).

17. Janet (‘Jenny’) Ethel ACTON: daughter of Janet (#16); sister of Nancy (#38), Dick (#21), and Bob (#32).

18. [Living son] ACTON: son of Dick (#21) and Annie (#27); brother of __ (#39), __ (#7), __ (#36), __ (#19), __ (#26) and __ (#22).

19. [Living daughter] ACTON: daughter of Dick (#21) and Annie (#27); sister of __ (#39), __ (#7), __ (#36), __ (#18), __ (#26) and __ (#22).

20. Edith (Allen) PARKER: wife of Jeff (#5)

21. Richard (‘Dick’) Arthur ACTON (1894-1984): son of Janet (#16); husband of Annie (#27); father of __ (#39), __ (#7), __ (#36), __ (#19), __ (#18), __ (#26) and __ (#22); brother of Nancy (#38), Bob (#32) and Jenny (#17).

22. [Living son] ACTON (back of head): son of Dick (#21) and Annie (#27); brother of __ (#39), __ (#7), __ (#36), __ (#19), __ (#18), and __ (#26).

23. Janet Mae WATSON: step-daughter of Bill (#4); sister of Bob (#2); granddaughter of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

24. [Living daughter] ACTON: daughter of Bob (#32) and Sarah (#31); sister of __ (#34) and __ (#33).

25. Priscilla (Baker) SHARPE: wife of (Bill (#9)

26. [Living son] ACTON: son of Dick (#21) and Annie (#27); brother of __ (#39), __ (#7), __ (#36), __ (#19), __ (#18), and __ (#22).

27. Annie (McKinnon) ACTON: wife of Dick (#21); mother of __ (#39), __ (#7), __ (#36), __ (#19), __ (#18), __ (#26) and __ (#22); sister of Alex (#14)

28. [Living daughter] WATSON: daughter of Jim (#15) and Nancy (#38); sister of Doris (#29), Bill (#13), Muriel (#37), and Sam (#3); granddaughter of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

29. Doris (‘Doris’) Janet WATSON (1915-ca 1985): daughter of Jim (#15) and Nancy (#38); sister of Bill (#13), Muriel (#37), Sam (#3) and __ (28); granddaughter of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

30. Viola (‘Vi’) MCKINNON: daughter of Anne (#11) and Alex (#14); niece of Annie (#27)

31. Sarah Hastings (Johnston) ACTON (1896-1986): wife of Bob (#32); mother of __ (#34), __ (#24) and __ (#33), sister of Mary (#41)

32. Robert ‘Bob’ Walker ACTON (1896-1966): son of Janet (#16); husband of Sarah (#31) father of __ (#34), __ (#24) and __ (#33); brother of Nancy (#38), Dick (#21), and Jenny (#17).

33. [Living daughter] ACTON: daughter of Bob (#32) and Sarah (#31); sister of __ (#34), and __ (#24).

34. [Living daughter] ACTON: daughter of Bob (#32) and Sarah (#31); sister of __ (#24) and __ (#33).

35. John (‘John’) McConnell Muir WATSON (1903-1994): brother of Bill (#4), Jim (#15) and Nell (#40); son of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

36. [Living daughter] ACTON: daughter of Dick (#21) and Annie (#27); sister of __ (#39), __ (#7), __ (#19), __ (#18), __ (#26) and __ (#22).

37. Muriel Mae WATSON (1919-2000): daughter of Jim (#15) and Nancy (#38); sister of Doris (#29), Bill (#13), Sam (#3) and __ (28); granddaughter of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

38. Agnes ‘Nancy’ Elizabeth (Acton) WATSON (1892-1981): daughter of Janet (#16); wife of Jim( #15); mother of Doris (#29), Bill (#13), Muriel (#37), Sam (#3) and __ (28); sister of Dick (#21), Bob (#32) and Jenny (#17); daughter-in-law of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

39. [Living daughter] ACTON: daughter of Dick (#21) and Annie (#27); sister of __ (#7), __ (#36), __ (#19), __ (#18), __ (#26) and __ (#22).

40. Helen (‘Nell’) McNab (Watson) ACTON: wife of Joe (#1); mother of Dick (#12) and Tom (#8); sister of Bill (#4), Jim (#15) and John (#35); daughter of Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR

41. Mary JOHNSTON: sister of Sarah (#31)

The picnic was likely held on a Sunday afternoon, after the 11 AM church service in the rural Rosewood United Church. After attending church, the families would briefly return to their farm homes. All family members remained dressed in their Sunday best; they would not change after attending church. Quickly tying on an apron, the women would pack food that had been prepared the day before. The men would conduct a last minute check of any farm animals that might require food and / or water before evening; if this necessitated a change into ‘chore clothes’ the white shirts, ties and dark suit trousers would be put on again before leaving for the picnic. Cars were quickly packed with excited children and delicious and plentiful home cooked food.

ACTON1938-052ACTON1938-051Each housewife would pack more than enough for her own family, but once at the picnic site, all food would be placed on picnic tables or blankets for a large ‘pot-luck’ feast including jellied salads, potato salad, canned chicken, hams, sandwiches (canned salmon, roast beef and pork, chicken, ham), pickles (dill, mustard, sweet, bread-and-butter), homemade buns and bread, cakes, ‘squares’, pies and cookies. Large jars of homemade lemonade would be available for the children, multiple thermos of hot tea would be provided for the adults. Several families would also bring a ‘cream can’ of cool drinking water.

The afternoon’s entertainment was informal: the woman would gather and discuss children, gardens, recipes.

The men would discuss cattle, crops, weather, the price of grain, the lack of railway cars to ship the grain, the cost of farm machinery, the state of the roads, and the other constant challenges of farm life. The young children would dash amongst the trees involved in their own games of tag, or games of, the now politically incorrect, ‘war’ with pretend guns made from tree branches.ACTON1938-054

 

 

 

ACTON, Jean Marjorie (1916-2013) Condolences

The following are a few of the condolences have been received since Jean’s death. Only the initials of senders have been used, and slight editing has been done to protect personal information of living persons.

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Jean Marjorie Acton (nee Boyce), May 16, 1916 – September 9, 2013

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                   She was a great lady. (from Jean’s brother M. Boyce, Calgary, Alberta)

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I have read the biography piece about your Mom and Dad several times. It is interesting to see how ordinary Canadian lives are, in fact, extraordinary. (from D. G., Halifax, Nova Scotia)

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Sorry to hear about your mother’s death. She was part of your daily life for so many years and you will miss her greatly. The older we are when we lose a parent the harder it is to realise that they are no longer there. You will be able to take comfort from knowing that you were a great support to her. (from G. & M. B., Nairn, Inverness, Scotland)

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I am writing this condolence on behalf of D. R; D.R. and his wife L. purchased the home on Lake Crescent that was owned by your parents. D.R. and L. both worked at Kelsey with L. as the Program Head for the Kelsey CNA Program (pre-cursor to the LPN program). L. & Jean had a significant connection with their interest in nursing
education. L. passed away in 2012.

I am D.’s first cousin once removed and I grew up at Abernethy, near
Lemberg, near Rosewood. Although I did not know your parents, the Acton name is well known to me. I extend my sincere condolences, and those of D., as well as expressing my delight in the wonderful website/blog that you have created to honour your family history. (from C.B., Saskatchewan)

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I am certain that your wonderful memories of such an awesome woman will comfort you and bring smiles for years to come. Please know that others are thinking of you as you go through this sad time. Such a wonderful soul is now back with Tom. Jean was a
key mentor for me in my nursing career. When Jean retired from SIAST she encouraged me to take her position. Prior to that I had the privilege to work with Jean, seeing first hand, her gentle wise presence as a leader, a team builder, a woman with incredible vision focused on health promotion. Many fun times were also enjoyed at Jean and Tom’s home on Albert street. I always enjoyed my Christmas letters that Jean sent from Victoria. She was very proud of her roots and her family. I am confident she will live on in all of you. Take care. (from D. S. B., Regina, Saskatchewan)

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What a wonderful 97 years Jean had surrounded by her loving family and friends. Jean loved life and live life to the fullest. She was such a treasure to all who knew her. She will be sadly missed, but forever fondly remembered. (from J. & L. G, and K. S., Saskatoon, Saskatchewan)

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Jean will be remembered and missed by so many who loved her and whose lives were enriched by her wisdom and enthusiasm for life. She left us with wonderful memories, as well as her books. (from S. A., Sioux Lookout, Ontario) 

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I’m so sorry to hear about your beloved mother.  It is a hard wrench to lose a parent and a shock to the system even after a long illness.  R. and I send you our heartfelt sympathy.  I shall re-read her books that you kindly gave me.  What a wealth of information and memories she left for you to cherish.  She must have been very pleased and proud that you took so much interest in her past and the past generations. (from L. & R. H., London, England)

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So sorry to hear your Mother passed away. She was a great lady and we remember her fondly from meeting her at your wedding. With sympathy, (from C. & A. R., Sherwood Park, AB)

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Jean will be remembered as truly a wise woman. Her keen observations, genuine interest in people, her independence and her sense of humour were great examples to all of us. In a family of strong women, she has been a role model and it was a privilege to know her. In loving memory of Aunt Jean, she will be missed dearly. (from S.W., Quadra Island, British Columbia)

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So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. It is hard to lose a mother. I know she will be greatly missed by all her family. My Condolences. (from E. M., Calgary, Alberta)

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We are so sorry to hear of your mother’s loss. Your mother was a very special lady and we were privileged to meet here and read her book – I still have images in my brain from her reminisces of old Esquimalt and other parts of Victoria. With condolences and much love. (from K. & H. B., Phoenix, Arizona)

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Jean lived a full and admirable life and was loved and respected by all who knew he. She was a woman I always looked up to and looked forward to talking to whenever we had time together. You were fortunate to have her for your mom. Jean has been fortunate in having both of you to provide the attention and care you’ve given her in these last years. I hope you’ll soon feel free from worry about Jean now that she is at peace. Best wishes for as much time for rest and recovery from care as you need. (from S., J. & B. J., Calgary, Alberta)

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Thank you for sharing with us and please know we are thinking of you both and
your families at this time. A. and I never met your mum, but over the years [we have heard] so many stories [about] her, that we considered ourselves part of her circle of friends. This is short as I know you will both be busy; however, I wanted you to
know you are in my prayers.  Be a comfort to each other and remember
the good times. (from A. & M. R., Livingston, West Lothian, Scotland)

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Very sad news. J., J. and I wish to express our deep condolences to all of you.

Fifteen years ago when we moved West, I went to Victoria for several weeks. I stayed with Jean for one week. It was a very good week, and it was the only week in my life I was superbly informed of provincial affairs. How did Jean manage to engage me in politics? That she kept me engaged is even more remarkable. I don’t remember having a gun to my head so it must have been thanks to her good story telling streak combined with the talents of an excellent teacher and a wicked sense of humor. We went to the tea house and had tea, scone(s) with thick cream, and strawberry jam. Ah! it was so good. My memory of Jean is anchored by such moments. (from J., J. & S. O., Calgary, Alberta)

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Our deepest sympathy to you. I am so sorry that I was not able to attend the [Ellisboro Cemetery] service for your wonderful mother. She was a great lady, so down to earth and caring.  She was my grade 1 teacher, although I can’t say that I remember much about grade one, I do know that I liked her very much. Not something we said about many of our teachers. I do remember her family and have a vague recollection of her sister Frances attending school at Rosewood at that time. I also remember her father and his great voice when he sang in church.  Her Mother was a lovely lady, I can picture them all still. Your Mum had a busy life going from teaching to nursing and farming and back and forth to the city. I remember your family living in town for a bit. That must have been when you were finishing high school and my girls and I were invited for supper one evening. Those were great times when life was simple and we were not rushing from here to there every day. Our thoughts are with you at this time. It is a tough thing to lose a Mother. So much love to cherish forever. May God bless you at this time. (from D & L. R., Lemberg, Saskatchewan)

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I am certain that your wonderful memories of such an awesome woman will comfort you and bring smiles for years to come. Please know that others are thinking of you as you go through this sad time. Such a wonderful soul is now back with Tom. Jean was a key mentor for me in my nursing career. When Jean retired from SIAST she encouraged me to take her position. Prior to that I had the privilege to work with Jean, seeing first hand, her gentle wise presence as a leader, a team builder, a woman with incredible vision focused on health promotion. Many fun times were also enjoyed at Jean and Tom’s home on Albert street. I always enjoyed my Christmas letters that Jean sent from Victoria. She was very proud of her roots and her family. I am confident she will live on in all of you. (from D.S.B, Regina, Saskatchewan)

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Our condolences on your Mom’s passing.  Chatter with Dad recalls your family’s farming days in Rosewood district/your Mom teaching Heather in nursing school/what a good time we used to have riding our bikes to your farm to spend a summer holiday afternoon with Janice/the ‘summer kitchen’ – so neat, to us, that you could cook out there and not have to heat up the house.  What a blessing to have had your Mom for so many years. (from S. L. and A. R., Lemberg, Saskatchewan)

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What very sad news. I am so sorry for your loss. What a long and amazing life your mother led. We are so grateful for her books, and for that chance to have met her more recently before my Dad passed away (which hard to believe was over 4 years ago). My sympathies are with you, especially in the coming weeks as you deal with, and adapt to this huge loss. Thank you for letting us know. (from K.G., Vancouver, British Columbia)

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So sorry, oh so sorry, there goes another splendid person. Tears. 
She had a smashing and an eventful life as per my Dad, they were two of a
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Just a note to express our sympathy in respect to Jean’s passing. As you know we have been correspondent (Christmas) friends, for a long time. She was such a help when we worked together on the Senior/retirement program in the 1980s. We always enjoyed her Christmas letters, her book and our visits when in Victoria. (from O. & J. L., Regina, Saskatchewan)

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Thank you for letting me know about Jean. It is so sad and I want you both to know that my thoughts are with you. I know how you both must feel at this moment in time and can assure you that the wonderful memories you have of your lovely mother will help you to cope. (from C. & B. M., Ayr, Ayrshire, Scotland)

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I realize Jean has had a long and fruitful life, but it is always difficult to see it end. We are thinking about you at this time. (from D. & S. A., Saskatoon, Saskatchewan)

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I worked with Jean during the years that she taught with the Nursing Assistant Program. I continued to have contact with her while she was with the Program in Regina. Lou (Wright) Robertson [& I] spent many enjoyable evenings with Jean and Tom at Lake Crescent. Tom and I settled all of he agricultural problems not only in the province but globally!

Jean played the piano for the last march leading the graduates into the gym for the last graduation held for the Nursing Assistant on campus. Future graduations were held at the Auditorium.

I always appreciated Jean’s common sense approach to all issues. Her keen sense of humor often provided the break we all needed.

She will be missed by all who knew her. I recall her speaking with pride about Tom’s accomplishments especially touring the province with the Queen of the Dairy interest. I’m not certain anything about who these young women were other than that we called them the Dairy Queens. The accomplishments of her daughters was a source of pride for both Tom and Jean and they were happy to become grandparents.
My sincere condolences to all of the people she has left behind. (from D. L. M., Saskatchewan)

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I have just found out that you have lost your mother. I am so sorry to hear that sad news. I recently read your entry in your blog telling your mother’s story including her marriage to Tom Acton and entry to the big Watson family. I have just gone back to your blog and have read the very loving obituary you have written. She has been a lovely person and enjoyed being surrounded by a loving family. It is such a painful loss but I do hope your lovely memories will soon ease that pain. Our sympathy to you and all your family. (from M. W., Mauchline, Ayrshire, Scotland)

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Saddened by the news.  Thinking if you and your family. Sincerest regards. (from M. S., Victoria, British Columbia)

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We were saddened to hear about your mom. Thank you for letting us know. She was a wonderful aunt, and great aunt to our family. I know that she and C. had a very special connection with working in writing and illustration. I too, have enjoyed reading the “Tabby” book, and have had my students do cat illustrations, based on the story. She was always a big part in everyone’s life. A comforting thought would be that knowing that she and her sister Betty are in the spirit world together. (from M & B. C., California)

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I was so sorry to hear of Jean’s passing. I remember meeting her a few years ago when she visited MISA In Halifax. I know she was a remarkable person and I am sure she will continue to live in you and with you in many ways. My thoughts and prayers are with you both and your family. (from N. A., Halifax, Nova Scotia)

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I’m sorry to hear about the passing of Jean. However, I hope that you can take comfort in the fact that she had a long and full life, and a peaceful passing. (from H. D., Calgary, Alberta)

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You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your mother was blessed to have two extraordinarily caring and compassionate daughters to enrich and share her life. I am glad that you were able to be with her at the end and to know her passing was peaceful.  Everyone here sends you loving thoughts. (from K. E., Toronto, Ontario)

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I just read your email about Aunt Jean – thank-you so much for letting me know. Jean will be very dearly missed by all. She was one incredible woman, who was blessed to have an extremely full life surrounded by a very loving family. My thoughts are with you all. (from C. C., Victoria, British Columbia)

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So sad…..but truly a gift that you and Jan were both with her, all together at the end. I’ll be thinking of you in the coming days. (from S. W., Vancouver Island, British Columbia)

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I am so-so sorry for Jean’s passing, I loved my aunt and am saddened by this news. Following so soon after my father passing. I love you both and wish I could be of some help. Please keep me informed and all my best wishes and prayers go out to you. (from D. C., New Jersey, U.S.A.)

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I’m so sorry for your loss and so very glad that you were both there with Jean when she slipped away, both for your sakes and for hers. Although Jean has been progressively slipping away from us for a few years, this final parting is terribly sad, except that it frees her from what had become an increasingly challenging existence. M. and I feel very fortunate to have been able to see Jean and say good-bye. We will both miss her. (from M. Z. & F. B., Victoria, British Columbia)

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Jean had a great life and was a very special person to us . I am happy she went in her own way no fuss or bother in her sleep and you and Jan both there just the way she would want it. I am sorry. We are sorry and she will always be missed. She has been a part of our lives for years. We loved her like family. (from E. A., Lemberg, Saskatchewan)

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So so sorry to hear of your loss, at least you all truly know she is now resting at peace. No words can express how much we are blessed to have known the wonderful lady your mom. She was influential as we visited and we are forever grateful for all the beautiful and useful items she donated to us for our new life when we moved here . We will forever be reminded of her kindness and amazingness as we go about our daily life. (from A. & A. M., Calgary, Alberta)

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I am so very sorry about your loss of your Mum. Jean was such a lovely person and she loved you so much. You could see how much she enjoyed your company, it was a pleasure to see. I still feel my mother’s presence and I remember how kind you were to me at the time of her loss. Your Mum is with you still and we benefit from her love because you are such a wonderful embodiment of her. (from B. R., Halifax, Nova Scotia)

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We are so sorry to hear about Jean’s passing. I know how close you two were – more like sisters then mother and daughters, because you shared so many common interests. She was a super special lady – so progressive, interesting and full of life. Our hearts are with you during this time. Take care and cherish the good times. (from R.L & L. W., Hong Kong)

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How terribly sad – a great spirit has passed from this earth. (from K. W., Halifax, Nova Scotia)

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I am so sorry. It doesn’t matter the circumstances, it’s your Mum and its such a terrible terrible moment in your life. Take care. We are thinking of you all. (from G. M., Halifax, Nova Scotia)

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So sorry to hear this news. While I never met Jean I have a very strong impression of an aware, engaged, vibrant woman who raised two incredible daughters, contributed greatly to her community, was curious and open to learn, and had a dignity that helped her weather all. As her health has failed I know that she’s lost some of her light but I also know there’s lots to celebrate in a good life well lived. And I also know how much she has appreciated your unstinting love, care and dedication as you have supported and accompanied her through these past years. We send our best wishes, solace and solidarity. (from R. F., Ottawa, Ontario)

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Just want you to know that I am thinking of you and your loved ones at this difficult time. There is no easy way to get through such a heart wrenching process of the final departure, the unravelling of the maternal thread that binds us so tightly to the earth.  May your mother take wing and fill your life and the life of all those she loves and has cared for with her great spirit. (from L. C., Ottawa, Ontario)

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Very sad news, and yet what a relief for Jean’s sake. This will be such a hard time for all of you, getting used to the shock of having her gone. No matter how prepared we are, we are never prepared. Jean was such a tremendous person, she made everyone feel so welcome and so whole — because she was so whole in herself. She was very important to me; we had some wonderful visits in Victoria that were more than just visits, she made me feel completely at home with her. G. met her only the once but liked her tremendously and was very sad as well to hear that she has died. It is such a lesson in how important it is to live our lives in connection with the people we love. (from J. O., Canmore, Alberta)

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Along with you we mourn the passing of the grand and talented lady that your mother was. We’re glad to hear her passing was quiet and peaceful, leaving a sense of serenity for you. She will be missed and long remembered by all who knew her and beyond that through the books she penned! You are all in our thoughts and prayers as you adjust to life without her. (from S. & M. A., Lemberg, Saskatchewan)

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I am so sorry to hear that Jean passed away. Thankfully, for me, I had the chance to meet her and talk with her on that lovely afternoon at J.’s and M.’s place in New Westminster a few years ago. She was an amazing woman. (from T. G., Vancouver, British Columbia)

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I’m sad to hear of Jean’s passing. She was a remarkable woman. What an intense time you two are in the midst of. I’m glad that you could both be with her as she left, as it was a meaningful experience for me and my sibs when mom left.  One doesn’t always have that choice. Jean was part of a large and wonderful family.  And she helped raise two amazing daughters. Take care. Our compassion goes to both of you, (from B. & B. P., Victoria, British Columbia)

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So sorry to hear of her passing. A tough time to go through for you. Awesome to have lived such a full life! (from A.W., Saskatoon, Saskatchewan)

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So sorry to hear about Jean’s passing. C. and I were just talking about her the other day and wondering what age she would be. 97! That is amazing. I have many happy memories of time spent with Jean when she came to visit in Edmonton and when I spent time with she and Tom in their home Regina. She was always so kind to me and such an interesting and intelligent person to talk to. Our deepest sympathy to you and Jan on the loss of a great mother. (from M. S., Victoria, British Columbia)

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I am so sad to hear this news. I met Jean shortly after she moved to Victoria and have visited with her many times over the following years. She has been declining over the last number of years but I will never forget her creativity, her research and her wonderful writing skills. My heart goes out to you both. (from J. H., Naramata, British Columbia)

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My very great sympathy to you and your family. There will, indeed, be a large  hole in your life – your Mom was quite an individual. I know you’ll treasure your memories. (from J. C., Edmonton, Alberta)

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So sorry to hear the news about your mother. She was much loved and much remembered by my sisters and I. Our mothers were so close and now they are both gone. I will remember her with great love. She was a wise, cheerful and loving woman. Each time I met her, she taught me something about life and living in the moment. (from K. P., B. R. & J. P., Ontario)

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D. and I send you and your family our sincere condolences for the loss of your mother. We feel very privileged to have met Jean. She was a wonderful and impressive woman. A life of 97 years is a life well-lived, and Jean lived hers especially well. (from D. D. & D. D., Vancouver, British Columbia)

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My condolences. I have such good memories of Jean as a wise, worldly and warm woman of the land and heart. Thank you for this email. I was just at the farm last weekend and thinking about the “other farm” and “Tom and Jean’s farm”. My heart goes out to you and your families. (from C. D., Winnipeg, Manitoba)

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss, but glad that you were there. It is such a loss to lose our matriarch; I still think of my mother almost every day (after 2 1/2 years) but am more settled now that I have scattered her ashes at the cottage, which she loved. Thank you so much for including me. My thoughts are with you both, and I hope you find relief and resolution. What wonderful women were our mothers! (from A. M. F., Ontario)

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I empathize for you and your family members. Jean was a rare gem and I can only imagine your sadness even though you can take comfort in the knowledge that she lived a long and fruitful life, bringing joy to everyone who was fortunate enough to be in her life. With deepest sympathies. (from R. W., Vancouver, British Columbia)

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I am so sorry to hear of Jean’s recent passing. I know these times can be very difficult. No matter how long they have had living a good life, they still leave us behind far too soon. Recalling the special memories you shared makes the grieving some what easier. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. (from G. & J. H., Vancouver, British Columbia)

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Thank you for letting me know. My heart goes out to you. Jean was such a wonderful person. And a big part of your lives. (from A. W., Lunenburg County, Nova Scotia)

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My condolences to you and all your family. Your mother was a most special and lovely lady, and I’m sure you will miss her greatly. I am pleased it was peaceful, and that you were there with her. Mothers are just so special – and I suspect it is hard for anyone to understand what it is like until it’s happened them. I still miss my lovely mother, and I am sure you will be the same. Especially as she played such a big role in your life. Take care – and remember all the special times. (from M. W., Havelock North, New Zealand)

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Thanks for letting us know of Jean’s passing. I read the blog on your Jean, & didn’t realize she had done & accomplished so much in her life, She was truly an amazing lady. She lived to be a good age & saying goodbye at any age is hard when one is so loved & is a great part of your life. Our sympathy to you all. (from G. & G. C., Lemberg, Saskatchewan)

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Our sympathy & prayers are with you all during this sad time. It is always sad to say good bye to loved ones. Thank you for letting us know. (from B. & P. A., Lemberg, Saskatchewan)

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Very sorry to hear about the sad news. I met Jean through you, [and] it didn’t take any time to see how special she was. My son, S. enjoyed Jean. He always said how pleasant she was. She has done so much during her life. We still have her books! Keeps! (from K. M., Victoria, British Columbia)

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We have not met, but I knew your mother a number of years ago in Regina. I worked at the university, at the Seniors Education Centre, and I really enjoyed the time I spent with Jean. Jean had an impact on the Centre, and indeed on everyone who knew her. I considered her a friend, as many did, and although it was sad news, I am glad to hear her passing was peaceful. (from S. P., Saskatchewan)

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I hope that both of you will continue to feel lighter and a sense of relief over the coming weeks & months.  If your experience was similar to ours, upon losing Mom,  you may have felt that the loss was gradual over a period of months/several years.  It is different for everyone, I realize.   We’re thinking of you often  these days. (from M. J., Calgary, Alberta)

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I’ve had waves of sadness wash over me at various times through the week, as well as savouring many warm thoughts about what a privilege it was to have had Jean in my life for the past nearly 20 years. (from F. B., Victoria, British Columbia)

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You must all be reeling from the enormity of losing Jean but at the same time the peace that can come from knowing that her anxiety and yours can be diminished. A life well-led was Jean’s and an example left for the rest of us to follow—one of integrity, hard work, love of life and adventure. (from B. R., Halifax, Nova Scotia)

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My husband and I spent many a Friday evening with Jean, drinking wine and fixing the problems of the world. She was not only a friend, but a mentor to me. She was a world traveler and book writer with an interest in everything. Always positive and a pleasure to be with, I will miss you Jean. (from M. S., Victoria, British Columbia)

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My thoughts are with you and your whole family. The turning of the wheel of life is not an easy thing. During your time together may you all share many happy memories and the strength and values your mom so obviously blessed you with.  As you know so well, those Saskatchewan women of our mothers’ generation were very special. May we honour them by living boldly each day of our lives. Our thoughts are with you during your time of loss. (from C. M. Halifax, Nova Scotia)

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Jean Marjorie Acton (nee Boyce), May 16, 1916 – September 9, 2013

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ACTON, Jean Marjorie (1916-2013) Biography

The owner of this blog is Jean’s daughter Patricia; she and her sister Janice have compiled and written this story of their mother. See also ‘Jean Marjorie ACTON Condolences’ posted September 16, 2013. If you would like to send a message to the family, or have memories or stories of Jean you’d like to share, please LEAVE A COMMENT or click here to use the email address theirownstories@gmail.com.

Please keep checking this space, other photos and stories will be added – there is NO deadline. This post last updated April 20, 2014.

069-1Jean Marjorie ACTON (May 16, 1916 – September 9, 2013) nee BOYCE, 97 years old, passed away quietly in Victoria, British Columbia. Much beloved mother, great/grandmother, sister, aunt, friend, and soul-mate, Jean’s vibrancy, empathy and inner strength were an inspiration to many.

Left: photo of Jean taken July 2013, holding a favourite photo of one of her great-grandsons.

Jean’s happiest times were with family and she will be deeply missed by her daughters Patricia (Jack Moffat) and Janice (Claudette Legault); grandson Daniel Acton Schick (Angie Hsieh); step-grandchildren Fiona Brown Moffat and Andrew Thomas Moffat; great-grandsons Thomas James Schick and Samuel Hunter Schick; step-great-granddaughter Brianna Emily Novak; brother Murray Simpson Boyce; sister Frances Ann Olynyk; and many other family and friends. Jean was predeceased by her husband Thomas Watson Acton (1991) and sister Betty May Campbell.

At Jean’s request there was no funeral. The family welcomed family and friends at the following:

  • Sunday, September 22, in Victoria, British Columbia, there was an Open House to Celebrate Jean’s Life.
  • Saturday, September 28 Jean’s ashes were interred at a small private gathering at the Ellisboro Cemetery, Ellisboro, Saskatchewan. This was followed by a reception at the Seniors’ Centre in Lemberg, Saskatchewan.

By Jean’s request, in lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the University of Saskatchewan to the ‘The Tom and Jean Acton Bursary’.

A word about ‘The Tom and Jean Acton Bursary’: This is a bursary totally run and administered by the University of Saskatchewan. Check out https://agbio.usask.ca/students/undergraduate/scholarship-and-awards.php and scroll down to the ‘T’s” for the ‘Tom and Jean Acton Bursary’. All monies received by the University are maintained in a trust fund and managed by the University.

How did it start? The impetus to set up the bursary grew out of Tom’s and Jean’s own personal experiences (as mature students) and financial worries of going to university at the same time as raising a family and struggling to make ends meet, combined with their profound commitment to the value of education. Following Tom’s death in 1991, Jean set up ‘The Tom and Jean Acton Bursary’ at the University of Saskatchewan in Saskatoon to assist mature students entering or returning to university.

How does it work? The administration of the bursary is carried out by the University of Saskatchewan; the selection of candidates is based on financial need. Each year a bursary (currently $1500 per year) is provided to a student who began university studies at least two years after achieving complete secondary level standing, or is returning to university after an absence of two years. Candidates must be Saskatchewan residents and be registered in any year of the Bachelor of Science in Nursing (to recognize Jean’s interest) or Bachelor of Science in Agriculture (to recognize Tom’s interest) Programs. The bursary is awarded on alternate years to each Program; a nursing student one year, an agriculture student the following year.

Please make the cheque payable to the University of Saskatchewan, but stipulate ‘Tom and Jean Acton Bursary’ or the donation will be added to the general University revenue. Address: University Advancement, University of Saskatchewan, 501 – 121 Research Drive, Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada, S7N 1K2.

A tax receipt which may be used for income tax deductions for charitable donations will be issued by the University in the name of the individual making the donation.

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BOYCE1916-043Jean was born on May 16, 1916 in a Canadian Pacific Railway (CPR) station in Neudorf, Saskatchewan. She was the first of the four children of Susan Matilda DODDS and Roy Elmore BOYCE. Her father was the station agent in Neudorf, and growing up in a railway station was an interesting place to watch the world go by.

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Neudorf was incorporated as a village only 11 years before Jean’s birth; growing up here offered many pioneering experiences.

Photos above: Main Street and CPR station in Neudorf

Right: first formal portrait, about 1918     BOYCE1918-000

Below: Other siblings were Murray (born 1918), Betty (born 1921) and Frances (born 1923).

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From 1916-1934 Jean grew up in Neudorf and completed Public and High School there. She attained an Intermediate Music (Piano) Certificate from Toronto Conservatory of Music.

Jean’s zest for life, broad interests, fun and creativity were shaped in part by growing up in a close-knit and loving family.  In her early years she enjoyed a wide network of friendships and close relationships with a supportive extended family, including siblings and cousins, aunts and uncles.  Her life-long love of music, reading and walking were rooted in her childhood, as was her strength and determination, and her get-on-with-it practicality, when facing challenges and adversity.

Photos below: growing up in Neudorf.

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BOYCE1931-010Photo with flowers: Graduation from high school? Below: Jean and friends, Jean in photo back left.

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In 1933-1934 Jean, 17 years old, was in Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan, where she attended Moose Jaw Teacher Training School. Her dream was to become a nurse, however age requirements stipulated that women had to be 18 to be eligible for enrollment. Jean’s decision was to teach and earn much needed money for her nurses’ training. At the Moose Jaw Teacher Training School she initially received her Temporary Teaching Certificate; later she qualified for a Permanent Teaching Certificate.

Photo below: Jean in Moose Jaw, obviously school was not all work!

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Between 1934 and 1937 Jean taught school at Rosewood School District #201, south of Lemberg, Saskatchewan. There she met her future husband Thomas Watson ACTON. ACTON1935-019

Photo left: Jean’s first day of teaching at Rosewood School. Photo below: Jean with Tom Acton, a local farm lad, who became her husband. BOYCE1937-000

Rosewood was a one-room country school and Jean faced the challenges common to that type of education: a Depression era salary (minimal – if paid at all); one room with children ranging in age from 6 to 16 (in winter) and grades 1 to 12; uncooperative furnaces; no indoor plumbing, unsupportive superintendents and almost total lack of school supplies. However, with her indominable spirit she prevailed, became lifelong friends with the neighbours she boarded with and thoroughly enjoyed the rural social life of card parties, picnics (with home made ice-cream) and dances. In the later years of her life, students from this period of her teaching career would often fondly remember their teacher ‘Miss Boyce’.

Her teaching job at Rosewood finished at the end of 1937, however she had to wait until March 1938 Intake Class to get into the Registered Nursing Program at Winnipeg General Hospital. To earn additional income and fill in the time, she spent January and February 1938 substitute teaching at Viewland School, south of Grenfell, Saskatchewan where, even in the brief time she was there, she made life long friends.

Jean’s teaching career was only to fill in time (and earn much needed money) until she was old enough to be accepted into nurses’ training. In March 1938 she fulfilled this dream and started courses at Winnipeg General Hospital. She graduated in April 1941 with her Registered Nurses Diploma.BOYCE1941-082

The time of Jean and Tom’s courtship and the early years of their marriage were significantly impacted by World War II and Canada’s role in the war. As she explained in a letter to her cousin Doris “We do not have any long-range plans, things are too indefinite. I intend to do special-duty nursing when I can as Tom’s salary is just $60 per month and that won’t go far. The main thing is that we will be together and intend to work things out as we go along.”

Jean married Tom on June 28, 1941 at the Neudorf United ACTON1941-001Church. Her wedding dress was the dress she had worn for her nurses’ graduation, lunch was served at home in the Neudorf CPR railway station and pictures taken on the station lawn. Tom sold the old car he owned to a friend so that he would have enough money to get married; then he borrowed the car back for their one-day honeymoon to Ft. Qu’Appelle, Saskatchewan.

After their marriage, during the 1941-1942 period, they lived in Regina, Saskatchewan. Jean worked as a Private Duty Nurse. ACTON1941-026Tom worked at Saskatchewan Cooperative Wholesale, then attended D. P. Y. T. in preparation for Royal Canadian Air Force (RCAF) Aero-Engine Program. It was understood between them at the time of their marriage that it would only be a matter of time before Tom joined the Canadian military and war effort.

Tom’s RCAF Training Program required that they move to eastern Canada in the summer of 1942; they remained there until February 1943. They lived in Dorval, Quebec for short time, then St. Thomas, Ontario for six months. Jean would laugh when describing their living conditions; they rented an upstairs bedroom in a two-or-three story house, the ‘kitchen’ was a single-ring hotplate on a shelf in the closet, and the bathroom was down the hall. However, they were better off than many who could not find even that type of minimal accommodation. Jean worked as First-Aid Nurse at Weatherhead’s, a munitions manufacturer of parts for ‘arsenals’. It was dangerous work with potential for serious injury for both Jean and the other employees. She told many stories of the accidental injuries she was called upon to treat, which she would treat in her compassionate while practical manner. During the time they spent in Eastern Canada they travelled in the area frequently to see local sites and visit relatives; a great satisfaction to Jean’s love of travelling and new experiences.ACTON1942-049

Left: : Tom and Jean beside a lake in Ontario

Tom’s military service required a move to Calgary, Alberta where he was stationed at #3 S.F.T.S., Currie Barracks. They lived in Calgary from February 1943 to June 1945.  During this period Jean took jobs to augment the meager family income; she counted street-car passengers, substitute taught for one month at Rockyford rural school, and nursed (private duty and in a clinic).

ACTON1945-020In the spring of 1945, in Calgary, Jean and Tom’s daughter Patricia was born. That summer of 1945, Jean and Tom left Calgary as Tom was posted to Penfield Ridge, New Brunswick where he was discharged in September. While Tom was away Jean and the baby lived with her parents the Boyces in Elkhorn and also with Tom’s parents the Actons in Lemberg on the farm.

During the winter of 1945-1946 Jean and Tom lived at Regina Beach, Saskatchewan. Very little housing was available for returning veterans and their families; the three members of the Acton family spent that winter in an un-winterized summer cottage. Fortunately it was not a cold winter.ACTON1946-001

The next winter, 1946-1947, was a different story as it was one of the coldest winters on record. The only housing available in Regina was an emergency housing unit (only cold water; no plumbing, bathroom facilities or telephone) on Alexandra Street in Regina.  The story of this winter long lived on in the annals of the family; Jean often remarked that “it was a wonder we didn’t all freeze to death.”

Above: Jean and her daughter pumping water while living in the emergency housing unit in Regina (aka ‘the cottage’).

In March 1947 Jean and Tom moved to Southview Farm, the farm where Tom had grown up in the Rosewood School District (where Jean had taught), a short distance south of Lemberg, Saskatchewan. Her in-laws Nell and Joe ACTON moved from the farm into ACTON1949-009aLemberg. In the autumn of 1948 a daughter Janice was born in the in Wolseley General Hospital, Saskatchewan.

Right: Tom, Jean, Patricia and baby Janice and Scotty the dog at Southview Farm with a new(?) car.

Between 1947 and 1956 Jean immersed herself in the role of a farm housewife; raising her family, growing a large garden, preserving enough food for the winter months (pickling / canning / freezing fruits and vegetables, killing and gutting chickens), helping with farm chores and fall harvest and becoming involved in local community events and organizations. Occasionally there were ‘quilting bees’ when a dozen neighbour women would gather to stitch an unfinished quilt on a wooden frame that took all the available space in the living room. The Acton farm, with its neatly tended lawns, was a frequent gathering place for Sunday picnics after the service at Rosewood United Church. Mothers would ‘bring a plate’ of food and admire the garden, fathers would head to the barn to talk about weather, crops and cattle (and have a wee nip out of a bottle?), and children would play cops and robbers (with pretend guns) and other games now considered politically incorrect.

In the 1950s, Jean and Tom began to make changes in their life to enable Tom to pursue his dream of a higher education. It was a difficult process at his time because he was deeply rooted to the land that his father had broken and set to crops. But, at the same time, conditions on the farm at this time were difficult and they both realized that changes would have to be made. In the mid 1950s Jean responded to an advertisement in the newspaper and was hired a public health nurse for the newly created Yorkton-Melville Health District. From 1956 until 1962 when the family moved to Saskatoon in 1962, Jean worked as a public health nurse in a large rural catchment area, organizing polio immunization clinics, setting up ‘Well Baby’ clinics, visiting rural and town schools and doing home visits with isolated families. Her training as a nurse, plus her own experience as a farm wife and mother, along with her openness, energy and interest in people and compassion made this an ideal job. In later years she looked back on these public health years as very happy and rewarding ones, because she felt she was able to make a difference in people’s lives in many practical and concrete ways.

From 1962 to 1972 Jean and Tom were in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. Jean transferred from Public Health to Education where she taught nursing, anatomy and physiology in Nursing Assistants Program at Kelsey Institute. She enrolled in the University of Saskatchewan and obtained a Bachelor of Science in Nursing (B.Sc. N.) in 1969, then Diploma in Adult Education. ACTON1969-002Tom graduated from University with his Agriculture degree in 1965, worked part-time, then full-time at the University of Saskatchewan, then with the Saskatchewan Department of Agriculture. These difficult but important years were the crucible out of which Jean and Tom developed the idea of creating a bursary to support mature adults such as themselves wanting to improve their education.

From 1972 to 1979 they lived in Regina, Saskatchewan. Jean was Supervisor of the Nursing Assistant Program (Core Year Nursing Program), Wascana Institute of Applied Arts and Science. Tom worked with the Saskatchewan Department of Agriculture.

Adult Education / Lifelong Learning: In addition to advancing their formal education, throughout the ‘70s and ‘80s , Jean and Tom participated in a wide variety of adult education and university extension programs. Both were influenced by, among other adult educators, Per Stensland from Sweden, who had gained international prominence  for his expertise  in community medicine, community development, educational sociology, nursing education, and teaching strategies. In 1976 Jean travelled to Scotland and Sweden for a program on Community Health Education offered by the University Extension Division, facilitated by Per Stensland, which provided her with a rich learning experience which clinched her lifelong commitment to adult education – and also whetted her appetite for more travel. In fact, for Jean, “travel” was synonymous with “learning”.

In 1979 after 20 years as Saskatchewan Government employee Jean retired, however she did not slow down. From 1979 to 1985 they continued to live in Regina (Tom was still working). Jean took classes in Research and Gerontology from the University of Regina, and conducted Retirement Planning, and other Adult Education Programs and workshops. She also did volunteer work with health and community-planning agencies. Tom retired in 1982. In 1986 they moved to Victoria, British Columbia.

Travel in later years: Jean and Tom shared a love of travel, which they did as often as they could, including trips to Britain, China, the Mediterranean, Hawaii, Canada and SCAN0212the US. Growing up during the Depression, when travel to foreign countries was something one could only imagine, or do as a soldier going off to war, Jean and Tom never took the privilege of travel for granted. They loved every moment of it. More than simply seeing the world, travel was a chance to meet and learn about people. They developed several very close friendships which lasted the remainder of their lives. As Jean noted in later years, travelling as they did was “a dream come true.”

Above: Jean and Tom in Greece

By the time of Tom’s death in 1991, Jean had been “bitten” by the travel bug, and she continued to take every opportunity possible to travel. SCAN0210She took a number of trips on her own through the Elder Hostel Program [a program with an adult education emphasis on learning about local history and cultures] including to northern BC, the Canadian Arctic, Northwest Territories, Denmark, New York and Ontario.

Right: Jean, with a ‘friend’, was always open to new experiences 

SCAN0214She was joined by various members of her family and friends as they travelled to Australia and New Zealand, Portugal, Spain, the Mediterranean, the US, and the Maritimes.

Left: Jean and sister Betty, Portugal, 1992

Jean was also on the commemorative voyage from Greenland to Labrador and Newfoundland marking John Cabot’s 1497 passage. SCAN0209 Below: Jean and sister Fran, somewhere in Greenland

Jean passed her enthusiasm of travel on to family and when she was no longer able to travel, encouraged them to travel as much as possible. Her mantra to everyone was “travel while you can.”

Below left: Jean dipping her bare foot into the Arctic Ocean, below right: Jean and her constant travel companion – her red gortex jacket. Her habit of wearing this jacket on every trip for a period of about 20 years was a source of teasing as we never could date the photograph of the trip by her clothes.

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Writing: Throughout her life Jean was a prolific correspondent and regular diarist. After Tom’s death she turned a new page in her life by becoming a serious writer. SCAN0206She had always been attentive to details of family history and had for years been the brunt of friendly jesting because of the “little red book” she carried with her everywhere, noting births and deaths, marriages, and names of people – information that we realized subsequently was a veritable treasure. She was initially inspired to write because of her desire to learn more about her mother’s time living in Victoria in 1907-08.  SCAN0207Her research into turn-of-the century Victoria and family memoires and papers, brought to Susan’s life and her relationship to her family, alive appeared as the book Dear May: A Conversation That Never Ended (1999).

Above: Jean celebrating the printing of Frail Hands at the Helm.

The book Dear May was followed by a more ambitious book about the life of her grandmother, Martha Dodds, and her family (Frail Hands at the Helm; 2006). Involving family members through their recollections and papers, and her own ACTON2000-015aresearch in the Winnipeg Archives and dusty basements of the old newspaper in Virden, Manitoba, she again brought to life the powerful story of a family that had overcome great odds.

In 2009, at family’s urging Jean also wrote a delightful story, Our Travelling Tabby Cat (2009), which was based upon her memory of their old pet cat who lived at her home in the Neudorf train station. Jean wrote each book in a collaborative way, involving siblings and cousins and children, knowing that each person remembers what happened in a slightly different way. One of the main themes of all Jean’s writing was the importance of family, being together, support each other, because with this support it was possible to overcome life’s problems and unhappiness.

Jean embraced writing with enjoyment and passion, motivated by the desire to learn more herself and her own family, but also hoping that her efforts would help to build a bridge of understanding with younger members of the family, whose realities are so divorced from those living in the late 1800s.  In her role as memory-keeper and family chronicler, Jean left a rich legacy of family stories, with insights and knowledge about what happened with long-gone members of the family, that will enrich the lives of the younger generation of the family.

The last 7 years: In the last few years of her life Jean’s health declined. However, regardless of these setbacks, and despite her shrinking world, she never lost her graciousness, her interest in people, and her sense of the importance of family.SCAN0198

She began a third book about family history focusing on her memories of growing up in a prairie train station. As with her previous efforts, she frequently consulted with family to affirm she was on the right path. Despite increased difficulties, Jean never lost her keen desire to engage with the world and the people around her. Until the end, Jean’s essence of empathy, love, graciousness and inner strength continued to shine.

MUIR, James (1842-1924)

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James MUIR b: 26 January 1843 in Maybole, Ayrshire, d: 26 December 1924 in Dean Cottage, 11 Maybole Road, Ayr, Ayrshire. (Photo from the author’s collection)

Places lived:

  • 1843 January 26 born in Craigokean /Craigenroy [?], Maybole, Ayshire
  • 1865, November 21 in Tunnoch, Maybole, Ayrshire – Farm Servant, (married Helen McNAB b: 1844 October 21, in Glenhouse (Glenluie), Kirkoswald, Ayrshire)
  • 1865 December 19, in Crosshill, Kikmichael, Ayrshire – Farm Steward, (daughter Jane MUIR born here)
  • 1867 February 28 – grandfather James MUIR died at Craigenroy, Maybole, Ayrshire (family lived there since James birth in 1843?)
  • 1868 June 06, in Damside, Sorn, Ayrshire – Coachman (Domestic) (son William MUIR born here)
  • 1870-1872 in Beoch, Maybole, Ayrshire – Farm Overseer, (1870 June 13, son James MUIR born here), (1872 April 30, son John MUIR born here)
  • 1874 February 19, in Knockton Cottage, Maybole, Ayrshire – Shepherd (daughter Helen Ramsay MUIR born here)
  • 1876 June 03, in Low Milton, Maybole, Ayrshire – Bower, (son David MUIR born here)
  • 1878 – 1882 in Slaphouse by Ayr, Ayrshire – Dairyman (1878 May 18, daughter Mary MUIR born here)  (1880 August 6, son George Kennedy MUIR born here)  (1882 October 23, son Gilbert MUIR born here)
  • 1882 – 1886 in Slaphouse or Robbsland?
  • 1886 – 1889 in Robbsland by Ayr, Ayrshire – Dairyman  (1886 January 7, son Thomas MUIR born here)  (1887 January 20, daughter Jane married Thomas WATSON here) (1889 June 03, father William MUIR died here)
  • 1890 – 1906 in Mainholm Farm, St. Quivox – Farmer,  (1890 May 05 – mother Elizabeth MANSON died here)  (1894 December 12, daughter Helen married John ORMSBY here)  (1902 December 12, son John married Agnes RUSSELL, John’s address Mainholm)  (1903 August 27, daughter Mary married Duncan GRANT here)  (1906 December 04, son George Kennedy married Helen DICKSON, George’s address Mainholm)
  • 1907–1924 in Mainholm Farm or Dean Cottage?
    (1907 February 8, son Gilbert married Alison GILMOUR, Gilbert’s address Beresford Lane, Ayr)
  • 1924 December 26, died at Dean Cottage, 11 Maybole Road, Ayr, Ayrshire – Farmer (Retired)

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MUIR, James (1870-1947?)

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[this post last edited, new information and / or images added 09 August 2013]

James MUIR was born 13 June, 1870 at Beoch Farm, Maybole, Ayrshire, Scotland. He was the third of the ten children of James MUIR and his wife Helen McNAB. WATSON1900-007At the time of James’ birth, his father James was the farm overseer and was home to register the birth. As the second son, James’ name broke with the Scottish naming pattern for children as his mother’s father’s name Kennedy McNAB was not repeated.

Photo right: James’ parents James Muir and Helen McNab, photo portraits hanging in the author’s home. The portraits are large as can be seen by the 6 foot bookcases.

During James’ childhood the Muir family frequently moved as his father continued to seek out employment opportunities that would support his growing family.

The 1871 census found the Muir family still at Beoch Farm. In the 1881 census, James, and an additional five siblings, lived at Slaphouse Farm, by the Slaphouse Burn on the outskirts of Ayr, Ayrshire, Scotland. James’ father James was now a ‘bower’ (probably a farmer who tended cattle). James was a ‘scholar’, the normal term for schoolchild. After Slaphouse Farm, the Muir family moved to Robbsland Farm, where on 20 January 1887 at James sister Jane MUIR, 21, married local tenant farmer Thomas WATSON, aged 32. (Although James had nine siblings, Jane is mentioned specifically here as I believe James kept in touch with her, at least initially.)

James, 17 at the time of his sister’s marriage to Tom Watson, would have completed his schooling and would have either found work off the farm, or perhaps was expected to now spend full days as a farmer.

In the 1891 census, James, now 20, was not with the family. Where was he? And where to start searching for him?

The only clue I had was cryptic note left by my deceased father Thomas Watson ACTON, which said “James (Jimmy) Muir went to England?” My father’s note, including the question mark, was all I had to go on. What had been my father’s source? It would have been his mother Helen McNab WATSON who was James’ niece and who had lived in Scotland during the period of this story.

I had another corroborating piece of information, slight as it was. A cousin, Donald SLATER who had been researching independent of my efforts, had produced a family tree that said “Home: England for James MUIR”.

Using the theory that there just might be some truth in family stories, I searched the 1891 census for England. This search was more fruitful than I could have imagined. While ‘James Muir’ is an extremely common name in Scotland, it didn’t prove so much so in England. A search yielded several hits for James Muir, however only one was born in 1870 in Ayrshire, Scotland. This James Muir was a greengrocer, who lived at 13 Butcher Row, Holy Trinity Parish, Coventry, Warwickshire, England. This James, although only 21 years old, was married to a Margaret Helen [surname not given in the 1891 census] with a family of two children: Margaret Helen MUIR (3) and James William MUIR (2).

Was this the correct James Muir? And how to tell? Although was not solid proof, I had several pieces of evidence. This James was the correct age and had the correct birthplace. And, if he followed the naming pattern for his children, he would name his first son ‘James’ after his father – which this James had done. This would seem to help point to his parents being James Muir and Helen McNab.

However, the James I wanted had grown up on farms. What was he doing as a ‘greengrocer’? Perhaps he had had enough of farming and had decided he wanted to go into business. Perhaps he had never wanted to be a farmer and left the farm as soon as he could. He had at least one Watson nephew (son of his sister Jane married to Tom Watson) who had vowed that he would not “spend his life following the rear-end of a horse that was pulling a plow” with all the inherent dust, flies and horse manure. If James felt this way it may have caused a rift with his father who would have expected him to follow in his farming footsteps. As a result, James may have left Ayrshire for England and the perceived greater opportunities.

Seeking irrefutable evidence that this was the correct James in Coventry, I ordered his marriage registration to Margaret Ellen McCUTCHION from the English General Register Office in the anticipation that his parents would be named. No such luck, however several other corroborating pieces of evidence were identified. The marriage, which occurred on 17 January 1888 at the Church of St. David, Parish of St. David, Birmingham, County of Warwick was between 18 year old James Muir, a fishmonger, and 19 year old Margaret Ellen McCutchion. This was the correct age for James (born in 1870), and as a somewhat early age for marriage, it was not likely that the registrar would have made that up. [parental consent was still required for marriages between the ages of sixteen and eighteen; James obviously convinced the registrar that he was eighteen – although technically he wasn’t for another six months]. Also, the groom’s father’s name was listed as ‘James Muir’, which was correct.

However, just when I thought the evidence was falling into place, a wrong note; the occupation of the groom’s father, James Muir, was listed as ‘publican’ and I knew that James’ father was variously a farmer, land overseer, bower, retired farmer – but never publican. However the registrar also indicated that Margaret’s father Samuel McCUTCHION (who lived in the same Parish and would have been known to the registrar) had no occupation. Perhaps the registrar: had placed the occupation opposite the wrong name; had not understood James’ accent; or was worse the wear for drink. Or, perhaps James, in order to look more presentable to his future father-in-law, had not mentioned that his father was a farmer, but instead enhanced his father’s occupation to that of a business to make himself a more suitable son-in-law. All these are possible.

I had one other piece of evidence that now fell into place. I have mentioned throughout these stories the box of unnamed photos that I had inherited. As explained in an earlier post, I knew from the provenance of the box that it had belonged to my great-grandmother Jane (Muir) Watson, and that no photos had been added that did not relate to the MUIR or WATSON extended families. Some of the most puzzling ones had been taken by a photographer in Coventry, England. I also knew from the considerable research that I had done to that point in time that I had not identified any families had connections to ‘Coventry, England’.

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Photos above: from the author’s collection

Are these photos sent by James of his family to his sister Jane? Are the top two photos of Margaret and James on their wedding day, dressed in all their finery? I hope that someone who reads this story will have a similar photo, or one that can be used for comparison for identification purposes.

James continued to live in Coventry for the rest of his life. In the 1901 census, James, 30, born in Scotland (right age, right birthplace) was now a cab proprietor. He and his wife Margaret Ellen and their four children lived at 17 Chapel Street, Coventry, Warwickshire. As well as the two children identified in the 1891 census, Margaret Ellen (12) and James William (10), Harold David MUIR (2) and Evelyn Victoria MUIR (2 months) had joined the family. James in-laws also lived with them: Samuel McCutchion, 56, fish merchant and his wife Sarah, 47.
In the 1911 census, James, 41, born in Ayr, Scotland (right age, right birthplace), still lived at 17 Chapel Street, Coventry. He was a widower. He was a motor mechanic, as was his son, 21 year old James William. His eldest child, 22 year old Margaret Ellen was a fish saleswoman. His other children Harold David, 12, Evelyn Victoria, 10 are identified, also Reginald Gilbert MUIR, 7 had joined the family since the 1901 census. His birth in 1904 places the death of James’ wife Margaret Ellen to the 1904-1911 period.

I have not identified James’ date of death, however a search of Coventry records (since James showed no signs of leaving Coventry) on Ancestry.com free BMD index has a James Muir, died 1947, 77 years old (right age for birth date of 1870) (Source: Registration District Coventry, Warwickshire, volume 9c, Page 634) Hopefully someone will have a copy of his death registration with both his parents identified.

Although the following has not been proven, the children of James and Margaret Muir appear to be:

Margaret Helen MUIR b: Bet. July–September 1888 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England, d: Aft. 1914 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England? married Walter H. WOODROFFE m: Bet. January–March 1914 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England.

James William MUIR b: Abt. 06 December 1889 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England, d: Bet. October–December 1971 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England? married Sarah E. HUGHES m: Bet. October–December 1912 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England.

Harold David MUIR b: Bet. July–September 1898 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England, d: Aft. 1924 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England? married Drusilla HOLLICK m: Bet. April–June 1924 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England.

Evelyn Victoria MUIR b: Bet. January–March 1901 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England, d: Aft. 1922 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England? married David ALLUM m: Bet. July–September 1922 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England.

Reginald Gilbert MUIR b: Bet. April–June 1904 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England, d: Bet. July–September 1968 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England. married Margaret V. S. HIRD m: Bet. July–September 1927 in Coventry, Warwickshire, England

SPEIRS, Janet (1888-1952)

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[for Janet’s parents and extended family see WATSON Family under heading ‘WATSON’]

[Please keep checking this space, Janet’s story will be told here as material and photos become available, the last information and / or images added 13 July 2013]

 INGLIS0001aJanet SPEIRS was born to Janet WATSON and her husband Gilbert SPEIRS, their only child. I have not been able to locate her birth registration in Scotland, however on her 1952 Saskatchewan death registration her daughter states her birth date was 22 December 1888. Scottish census records indicated that she was born either in Saltcoats, Ayrshire, Scotland (1891 census of Scotland), or Kingarth, Buteshire, Scotland (1901 census of Scotland). The 1911 census adds to the confusion as Janet, 22, listed her birth place as ‘Argylshire, Inellan’.

Photo left: Janet Speirs, taken in Saskatchewan during WWII (see photos below). From the author’s collection.

Whichever her place of birth, as child Janet moved often. In 1891, when she was 2, her father Gilbert, 33, was a shepherd and her mother Janet, 35, a housekeeper for a farmer named Mitchell, on Overton Farm, Killearn, Stirling. By 1901 Janet, 12, had moved again, this time to Rankinston Farm, Ayrshire. While Janet attended a local school, her father was a farm servant and her mother worked as a dairymaid at the farm. By this time Janet would certainly have known, and played with, her Watson and McConnell cousins, the children of her Uncle Tom  and Aunt Jane [Thomas WATSON and Jane MUIR] and her Aunt Isabella and Uncle John [Isabella WATSON and John McCONNELL].

The extended Speirs-Watson-McConnell family experienced many changes in the early 1900s. In 1904 the sudden death of Janet’s Aunt Isabella McConnell left a family of young children motherless. Janet’s Uncle John McConnell, who had recently become unemployed, was not able to look after all the children by himself. Janet’s parents were involved in helping the McConnell family cope. Janet, 16 in 1904, if not away from home working as a domestic servant, would have been called upon to help with the McConnell children.

As other stories in this blog about the extended Speirs-Watson-McConnell family have explained, in the early part of the 1900s most of them immigrated to North America, particularly Saskatchewan. Janet also wanted to follow her Watson cousins, and shared this ambition with her cousin Nellie who in April 1910 had left Scotland with her parents [Thomas and Jane Watson], and four siblings. We know that Janet wanted to leave Scotland from a postcard she sent to Nellie [my grandmother [Helen (Nell) McNab WATSON].

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Postcard from the author’s collection

The postcard (above) was written on 9 August 1910, four months after Nellie had left Scotland for Saskatchewan; the postcard was addressed to the post office in Ellisboro, via Wolseley, Saskatchewan. Mailed in Ayr, Scotland on August 10, the postcard was received and stamped in Ellisboro on August 30 – amazing delivery time considering the so-called ‘slow’ methods of transportation in that period. Janet’s address at the time she wrote the postcard was ‘Wellpark, Racecourse, Ayr Rd. [Ayr, Scotland]. “Dear Nellie, Just a p.c. to say I hope you are getting on well and that you are all liking your new places. I was down at Girvan* last week for a few days holidays it rained every day. Write soon and give me all the news about the places you can. I am still on the notion to go out but mother [Janet (Watson) Speirs] thinks I am just as well where I am but I will see. Hope you are all well from your affect[ionate] cousin J. Speirs.”

[* Girvan was where Janet’s cousin Mary Hunter Morton McCONNELL lived – see post 20 April 2013. Janet’s parents may have also lived in the Girvan area in 1910].

It took a little over two years for Janet to convince her mother, or for other family events to occur which made the move to Saskatchewan not only possible, but desirable for the Speirs family. On 2 November 1912, Janet, 23, ‘domestic servant’, boarded the ship S.S. Cassandra in Glasgow. With Janet were her mother Janet, 54, and her father Gilbert, 57. WATSON1930-000Janet’s cousin Elizabeth Wyllie McCONNELL, 17, [see post 26 April 2013] also travelled with them. The group disembarked in Montreal, Quebec on the 12th of November, 1912. The ship’s passenger list showed that their destination was Wolseley, Saskatchewan.

[Photo above: Janet’s parents Janet and Gilbert Speirs; Gilbert with the ever-present corn cob pipe. Photo taken in Ellisboro, Saskatchewan, probably in the late 1930s. From the author’s collection.]

From Montreal, a train journey took the new immigrants to Wolseley, Saskatchewan, where no doubt they were met at the railway station by members of the Thomas and Jane Watson family. Christmas 1912 Janet would have been united with her Watson cousins and no doubt she and her cousin Nellie had many stories to share.

Janet likely found work as quickly as she could, possibly as a ‘hired girl’ for one of the neighbours. She had been in Saskatchewan only about a year when, at 25 years of age, she INGLIS0001bmarried John (‘Jack’) INGLIS. Their daughter Janet was 2 years old in the 1916 census, meaning she had been born about 1914, putting Janet and John’s marriage about 1913. They probably were married in Ellisboro.

Photo right: John Inglis, taken in Saskatchewan during WWII (see photos below). From the author’s collection.

Not much is known at this time about John Inglis or indeed about the Inglis family. The 1916 census listed John Inglis as 28 years old, which meant that he was the same age, or a year older, as his wife Janet. The census also recorded that he was: born in Scotland; Presbyterian; and worked as a labourer. The census also recorded that he immigrated to Canada in 1912 – the same year as Janet. Would it be too much of a coincidence if John and Janet knew each other in Scotland? More research is required to find out which part of Scotland John came from.

For a number of years Janet and John lived in Ellisboro, they then moved north a few miles to a farm known locally as the ‘Johnny Thompson Farm’. They rented this farm until Johnny Thompson married and needed the farm for himself and his bride. The Inglis family was required to move so the farm would be available to the owner. They lived for some time, once again, in Ellisboro and then bought land in the Abernethy – Balcarres area, just a few miles from Lemberg. McConnell1-0002We know that they had moved to Abernethy by February 1935 as Janet nursed her mother Janet (d. 12 February 1935) there before her death. Janet’s father Gilbert also died (d. 19 April 1941) at the Inglis home.

Above, death memorial card for Janet’ mother (Jennet) Watson / Speirs. The card, as well as the one below for Janet’s father Gilbert,

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was sent to Janet’s cousin William Watson McCONNELL in the United States [see post 28 April 2013]. These death memorial cards are still in the collection of Mary Smith who lives in Tennessee.

John and Janet had five children:

Janet Watson INGLIS, also known as Jennie, was born about 1914 (according to the 1916 census). She INGLIS0002alikely was born in Ellisboro. Very little is known of her life. It is known she married after 12 July 1933 if a news item can be trusted. The Wolseley News, Wednesday, 12 July 1933, in the ‘Ellisboro news column’ noted that “Miss Jennie Inglis spent the weekend with her parents in the Abernethy district.” As Mrs. R. S. EICHEL [Ronald Sinclair Eichel?], of Indian Head, she was the informant of her mother’s death in 1952. There is a grave in the Indian Head, Saskatchewan cemetery with a similar name, and a death date of 1955 – perhaps this is Janet’s grave?

Photo above right: Janet Watson Inglis, taken on the ‘Johnny Thompson Farm’, Saskatchewan, about 1930. From the author’s collection.

John (‘Jack’) W. (Watson? William?) INGLIS was born in the first few months INGLIS0001cof 1916, according to the 1916 census. He also was likely born in Ellisboro. From the photos below we can surmise that he was in the Canadian Army in WWII, it is not known what he did after that. His grave is not with the rest of his family in Balcarres, Saskatchewan.

Photo right: John W. Inglis, taken in Saskatchewan during WWII (see photos below). From the author’s collection.McConnell023-2

Photo left: “Little Jenny and Jack Inglis with Isa”, from the collection of M. W., Mauchline.

[Photo above: Isabella (Isa) Watson McCONNELL was Janet’s first cousin. This photograph was taken in Ellisboro, Saskatchewan probably late 1917 or early 1918. Isa sent this photo ‘back home’ to Girvan, Ayrshire, Scotland to her sister Mary Hunter Morton McConnell. The photograph is still in Scotland, in the collection of M. W. of Mauchline, one of Mary’s descendants.]

Gilbert A. INGLIS was born in 1924 and died in 1963; these dates have been obtained from his gravestone in Balcarres, Saskatchewan. INGLIS0002bGilbert was probably born on the Johnny Thompson Farm. A family story indicates that, as a boy, Gilbert was a good racer and could ‘run like the wind’.

Inglis02Photo right: Gilbert Inglis, taken on the Johnny Thompson Farm, Saskatchewan, about 1930. From the author’s collection. Photo above left: Gilbert’s grave taken by the author 13 July 2002, in Balcarres, Saskatchewan.

Children numbers 4 and 5 were twins, J. (James?) Gordon INGLIS and Kenneth W. (William? Watson?) INGLIS. They were born on 1 May 1925, probably on the Johnny Thompson Farm. INGLIS0003aWe know from photos that Kenneth was in the Canadian Navy during WWII. Kenneth died 25 March 1990. He is buried in the Balcarres Cemetery. Inglis01

Photo above left: Kenneth W. Inglis, taken in Saskatchewan during WWII (see photos below). From the author’s collection. Photo above: grave of Kenneth W. Inglis, taken by the author 13 July 2002, in Balcarres, Saskatchewan.

Nothing is known about Kenneth’s twin J. Gordon at this time. According to the information on his gravestone in Balcarres, he died 14 June 1993. Inglis04

Photo right: grave of J. Gordon Inglis, taken by the author 13 July 2002, in Balcarres, Saskatchewan.

Information at this time is very sketchy about the Speirs-Inglis family. We do know that they kept in touch with the extended Watson – McConnell family. As well as shared photographs and postcards there were family visits.

My mother remembers that even in the period 1950-1970s, and until my grandfather Joseph (Joe) ACTON died in 1972, John (Jack) Inglis would visit Joe in Lemberg. Jack would have been a ‘cousin-in-law’ to Joe; Joe’s wife Nellie [Helen McNab Watson] and John’s wife Janet Speirs had been first cousins. Nellie had been the recipient of Janet’s post card from Scotland, almost 50 years earlier, in 1910.

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Janet (Speirs) Inglis died 16 June 1952. According to the date on the grave in Balcarres her husband John Inglis died in 1980.

Photo right: grave of Janet and John Inglis, taken by the author 13 July 2002, in Balcarres, Saskatchewan.

Other Inglis family photos from the author’s collection: INGLIS0001

On back of photo right: Jack, Janet & young Jack’ Is this the Inglis farm home near Abernethy? From Jack’s army uniform this appears to have been taken during WWII. Perhaps Jack had just enlisted and received his uniform and was leaving home?

INGLIS0003On back of photo left: Ken Inglis & his dad. This photo was taken in the same location (although not the same day – Jack isn’t wearing a tie) as the photo above, sometime during WWII. Perhaps Ken had just received his uniform and was leaving home?

On back of photo below: no names, but we know from the INGLIS0005above photo that the man in uniform is Kenneth Inglis. Who are the children? Could these be Ken’s nephew and niece, the children of his sister Janet?

On back of photo right: Inglis INGLIS0002Left to right in the photo could be: John (Jack) born about 1916, Gilbert, born 1924; twins – J. Gordon and Kenneth W. born 1 May 1925; and Janet Watson, born about 1914. The location is probably the ‘Johnny Thompson Farm’; surrounding countryside bleak. Photo taken about 1930?

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Photo left: Inglis twins Ken & Gordon Location – same as above photo. Taken probably in the summer of 1925 (the uncropped photo shows this photo is in the front doorway, during warm weather).

Photo below: Unknown photo. Could these be the Inglis twins and ?. The photo format is a postcard that has been made in Canada so this is not a family from Scotland, although the provenance of the photo would indicate that this is a Watson family relation.INGLIS0007

McCONNELL, William Watson (1902-1967)

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  [for William’s parents and siblings see WATSON Family under heading ‘WATSON’]

This story is dedicated to Mary Janet McConnell Smith, the daughter of William Watson McCONNELL and a granddaughter of Isabella WATSON and her husband John McCONNELL. Mary was born in Seattle, lived in Montana and now lives in Tennessee, USA. Mary has been, and continues to be, central to the research and interest in the story of Isabella and John McConnell and their descendants.

[this post last edited, new information and / or images added 8 July 2013]

William Watson McCONNELL was born on 16 February 1902 at Carcluie Cottage, Ayrshire, Scotland, the youngest child of John McCONNELL and his wife Isabella WATSON. Young William’s world was shaken when his mother, who likely had been ill for some time, died unexpectedly on 11 June 1904 after an operation at the Western Infirmary in Glasgow. Additionally – for a reason unknown at the present – his father was no longer employed in his lifelong occupation as a gamekeeper, and appears to have had difficulty supporting his large family. All this for two year old William to cope with.

Suddenly the McConnell family was motherless. Although it is not clear how the family managed it seems likely that William’s 21 year old sister Mary (Mary Hunter Morton McCONNELL), as the eldest child and daughter, may have become his surrogate mother. His brothers, 19 year old John (John McCONNELL) and 17 year old Thomas (Thomas Watson McCONNELL) would have completed school and worked outside the home; John as an apprentice joiner and Thomas as a clerk. William’s older sisters, 15 year old Janet (Janet Watson McCONNELL), 13 year old Isa (Isabella Watson McCONNELL), and 9 year old Elizabeth (Elizabeth Wyllie McCONNELL) still attended school. William was the baby of the family and, if his mother was ill for many months before her death, he may not even have had much memory of her.  It seems fairly certain that William’s grandmother, Mary HUNTER, would come and stay with the family. Also, William’s aunt and uncle Janet (WATSON) and Gilbert SPEIRS helped wherever they could. Strong ties were also maintained with William’s uncle Thomas WATSON and his wife Jane MUIR. Over the next few years, William was likely cared for by a variety of immediate and extended family. He seems to have been particularly close to his sister Isa.

No doubt many extended McConnell-Watson-Speirs family discussions occurred; not only about their own individual futures, but also what could and should be done about the young McConnell children? Not only was the McConnell family motherless, but John, the father, had for some reason no further work as a gamekeeper and the family had left their home of Carcluie and were in rented accommodation. What could be done?

In the early 1900s deliberations began about a possible move to the ‘new world’ of North America. Newspapers were filled with advertisements extolling the virtues of this new land: job opportunities abounded; all skills were required and welcome; land was available for purchase and in some cases basically ‘free’; the climate was healthy; plenty of food was easily grown; the strict class society was not followed. And this new land offered adventure. The younger members of the family were likely enthusiastic about the move. They could see that life as their parents knew it did not offer the opportunity and future that they wished for. The older generation likely were more reluctant to change their ways and routine and were understandably hesitant about a move to the other side of the world.

William, although he was only young, likely listened intently as his father, siblings, aunts and uncles and cousins discussed back-and-forth the pros and cons of emigration.

McConnell0002Photos left: William about 3 years old, taken in Scotland about 1905. From the collection of Mary Smith. In the photo where he wears the cap, it is easy to imagine William listening intently to a dinner table conversation about emigration.

In October 1905 another blow struck the McConnell family when William’s 18 year old brother Thomas died of tuberculosis. It is not known whether Thomas, who had worked as a railway clerk, had been enthusiastic about emigration. In the heyday of railway development in western Canada he certainly would have had opportunity for work if he had moved. However, his death from tuberculosis may also have encouraged the other family members in their search for fresh air (of which western Canada certainly had an ample supply) as well as land and opportunity.

The first to move, in June 1906, was a Watson cousin, 17 year old James (Jim) Muir WATSON. Jim sailed to Montreal and then went by train to Manitoba where he worked as a farm labourer to save up money to buy his own land. Although William didn’t know it at the time, ten years later he was to stay with Jim and his Canadian wife on the Saskatchewan farm that Jim had purchased.

In June 1909, when William was 7, his siblings started to immigrate. His elder brother John, 24, a carpenter, sailed for New York and settled in New Jersey. William would likely miss John whom he may have regarded as a special older brother. In July of that same year William’s cousin William (Bill) Watson Muir WATSON, 17 years old, sailed for Canada where, like his brother Bill, he worked on a Manitoba farm as a farm labourer earning money for land purchase. Unknown to William at the time he would see Bill again in four years in Saskatchewan. [See post 28 February 2013 for the post card that Janet WATSON / SPEIRS wrote to Bill for Christmas 1909.]

William likely continued to live with various family members and the to-emigrate-or-not-to-emigrate conversations continued. We know that the Speirs considered the move. In April 1910 William’s uncle Thomas Watson and his aunt Jane, and their children moved to Saskatchewan. Their move meant that the entire Watson family, with the exception of one son, had left Scotland. One of William’s support families had disappeared from his life. The 1911 census found William as a ‘visitor’ with his aunt Janet and uncle Gilbert Speirs.  A year later, in November 1912, that support family disappeared as well when Janet, Gilbert and their daughter Janet sailed for Canada. With them went William’s sister, 17 year old Elizabeth. They all headed to the Wolseley, Saskatchewan area where the Watson family had settled. For William, Elizabeth’s move meant another sibling gone.

It appears that most of the remaining McConnell family decided to join the others and it was decided that William and his older sister Isa should emigrate and join the other families in Saskatchewan. Family stories indicate the William’s father John planned to move; he would likely feel responsible for his son William who was still a minor. Bad fortune struck the McConnell family again, when in January 1913, William’s father died suddenly and unexpectedly after brief four day bout of “acute pneumonia”.

However likely the travel plan had already been made, the tickets already purchased. On July 5th, 1913 William, 11 years old, and Isa, 22, left Glasgow on the ship S.S. Letitia for the ten day trip to Montreal.

McConnell0003aPhoto right: William about 11 years old. From the collection of Mary Smith. This photograph may have been taken in Scotland, as a formal portrait, before William got on the ship S.S. Letitia.

The arrival in Montreal would have been followed by a train ride to Wolseley, Saskatchewan.

By the end of 1913 most of the extended McConnell-Watson-Speirs family had left Scotland. The only two McConnell family members to remain in Scotland were William’s older sisters Mary and Janet.

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Photo left: Gilbert Speirs and William, 1919, taken in Ellisboro, Saskatchewan, Canada. From the collection of Mary Smith.

Family stories indicate that when William and his sister Isa arrived in Canada their older brother John met them and stayed with them for a month at the home of Janet and Gilbert Speirs in Ellisboro, Saskatchewan. If this is the case John would have travelled from New Jersey to Montreal to meet their ship and then travelled to Saskatchewan by train with William and Isabella.

Not much of William’s life in Saskatchewan is known. He must have gone to school since he was 11 years old when he arrived in Canada. It is not known when he moved permanently to the USA. His family believe he crossed the US / Canadian border ‘many times’. By 1920 his sister Isa had moved to the USA and married Ernest PIERCE in Shellby, Montana. In 1921, William went, perhaps not for the first time, from Canada to the USA, and again in August of 1922 at Seattle, he went to Shellby, Montana.

Photo below right: William, about 1928.  From the collection of Mary Smith. McConnell0001-xc

Sometime later he joined the US military. McConnell0001-xbPhoto left: William (on left) with an unidentified army buddy. When in 1930 he married his first wife, 18 year old Ruth Leona DAVIS, he was in the Army at Fort Lawton in Seattle with the Third Engineers. Ruth was born in 1912 in Washington state and died in Florida in 1992.

McConnell0001-xgPhoto left: William and his 1st wife Ruth Davis, 1933. This and the above photos from the collection of Mary Smith.

Ruth and William McConnell had three children; Mary Janet McCONNELL (born 22 May 1933); William (Billy) Lyle McCONNELL (born 22 May 1937); and Bonnie Jean McCONNELL (born 29 June 1938). All of the children were born in Glasgow, Montana; William’s eldest child Mary believes her father worked as a fireman during the building of the Fort Peck Dam. The children were born during the depression years and work was hard to find; a job at the Fort Peck Dam construction would have been welcome.

William’s daughter Mary picks up her father’s story. “In 1940 my dad re-enlisted in the Army at Glasgow, Montana for two years, in 1942 he re-enlisted, this time in Butte, Montana. During this tour of duty he was shipped to New Guinea to clear jungles and build air fields. He was one of the first ones there and I have more than fifty pictures of natives in New Guinea. While my dad was at war, my mother Ruth, on June 23, 1943, put my sister, brother and I in an orphans’ home in Great Falls, Montana. My sister Bonnie Jean died on April 7, 1944 of diphtheria.

Dad was discharged from the military on August 12, 1944. He got my brother and I from St. Thomas’ Orphans’ Home and on September 25, in Wolf Point, Montana, he married Lulu FULLER. She was born in 1887, died May 26,1956.” McConnell0001-xd

Photo right: William and his 2nd wife Lulu. Photo taken sometime between 1944 and 1956. Photo is from the collection of Mary Smith.

Mary’s story continues: Between 1945 and 1948 I don’t remember too much but my dad did work on the Great Northern rail line. Lulu  is the one who raised my brother and I after Dad got out of the army. In 1949 we moved to Troy, Montana. I think the Rail Line transferred my father. We rented a piece of land, that had a horse barn on it. My father converted the horse barn into a home for us to live in. Down stairs was divided in half by a blanket that made a kitchen and bedroom. Upstairs was divided in half so my brother and I each had a bedroom. The stairway to our upstairs bedroom was on the outside of our house. There was no electricity, running water or indoor plumbing.

McConnell0001-xfIn 1958 dad married his third wife, Mary ALFORD.  Mary was  born in 1901. She and dad were married in 1958 in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho.

Photo left: William with his wife Mary (woman on left side of photo) with an unidentified friend. Photo taken between 1958 and 1967. From the collection of Mary Smith.

On 23 March 1960 my brother William (Billy) Lyle McConnell died at Camp Pendleton, California. He was in a special outfit in the Marines. He was coming home to put on a show at the fairgrounds for Memorial Day and was killed in a car accident.

In 1965 when Dad came down to Florida to meet my husband, Clifford Smith, and my daughter, I had been away from home for sixteen years, since 1949.

McConnell0001-xhDad died on 17 April 1967 in Lewiston, Montana. He was very active in the VFW and the Veterans’ Affairs hospital where he ran the bingo for the patients. Mary Alford died in Hellena, Montana in 1967.”

[Author’s Note: a search of the Montana Death Index and associated records on Ancestry.com show that William W. McCONNELL, born 16 February 1902, died 17 April 1967, was buried in the city cemetery of Libby, Lincoln County, Montana. Also buried in this cemetery are William’s wife Lulu McConnell (1887-1956) and  William’s son William L. (1937-1960).]